Domestic violence is a serious issue that affects many families around the world, and in Nigeria, children often bear the brunt of this violence. 

Defined as any form of abuse that occurs within a domestic setting, domestic violence can take many forms, including physical, emotional, and sexual abuse.

Unfortunately, stepchildren are particularly vulnerable, facing harsh treatment that can lead to severe physical and psychological harm.

Recent incidents of stepmother in Taraba State allegedly chopped-off step-son’s lip with hot knife, bring to light the extreme violence that some children endure.

The case in Taraba is not an isolated incident. There have been other shocking reports, including one from Minna, Niger State, where in 2017, a stepmother mutilated her stepson’s genitals, resulting in his tragic death. These stories reveal a disturbing trend where stepchildren are subjected to brutal punishments for minor offenses.

Many of these children are mercilessly beaten, leaving lasting scars on their bodies and minds. Some abusers even resort to using razor blades to inflict pain, treating children as if they are less than human.

Such acts of violence are often rooted in cultural beliefs that devalue the lives of stepchildren.

In many Nigerian families, stepchildren are seen as outsiders, leading to a lack of empathy and care from their guardians. This mindset not only perpetuates abuse but also creates an environment where children feel unsafe and unloved.

It is crucial for society to recognize that all children, regardless of their biological status, deserve love, protection, and respect.

We must condemn these horrific acts of violence and call on parents, especially fathers, to take a stand against such behavior. Fathers play a vital role in setting the tone for family dynamics and should actively promote a culture of kindness and protection for all children.

Communities must also come together to support victims and raise awareness about the importance of treating every child with dignity and respect.

Finally, the government and human rights organizations must step up to combat domestic violence against children. Stricter laws and policies should be implemented to protect vulnerable children and hold abusers accountable. It is essential for everyone—families, communities, and authorities—to unite against this menace and ensure that children can grow up in a safe and nurturing environment.

Together, we can work towards a future where no child suffers in silence.