If you’re expecting your partner to be perfect, you’re likely to be disappointed

Many a time we talked about marriage and divorce, neglecting ‘breakups’ which is the younger brother of the divorce.

A breakup happens when a relationship is no longer working. When two people who have come together to check the possibility of being together realize they cannot be together anymore.

Although many don’t realize this fact till they get into marriage before their eyes are opened and that’s what brings about divorce. They say a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. It is better to break the relationship than break the Marriage.

Our focus in this article is a breakup, which many translated as ‘breakfast’ funny right? I am laughing right now.

At some point in our life, we have gone through breakups, yes the ones we have cried our eyes out, the ones we just hiss and say ‘otilor’, in short, we see it as a normal thing in relationships. Some will say “It’s meant to happen”.

There are many reasons why breakups happen, but some of the most common ones include a lack of compatibility, a lack of communication, and a lack of trust.

Also, many different factors can contribute to a breakup. One common cause is incompatible values. This can include things like different religious beliefs, political views, or even differing opinions on money and lifestyle or just different perspectives on life. These differences can make it difficult to build a strong foundation for a relationship.

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Let’s take a closer look at the issue of compatibility. One common issue is religious differences. This can be a significant source of conflict in a relationship, especially if one or both partners have strong religious beliefs.

For example, if one person is very religious and the other isn’t, there can be tension over things like how to raise children, what to do on Sundays, and even what foods to eat.

Another common issue is political differences. This can be especially difficult in today’s political climate when many people feel strongly about their political beliefs. For instance, let’s say one person is very liberal and the other is very conservative.

This can cause conflict on a variety of issues, from healthcare to immigration to the environment. Even if the two people love each other deeply, they may find it difficult to reconcile their different political beliefs. This can lead to arguments, resentment, and ultimately, a breakdown of the relationship.

Therefore it is important to know if one is willing to succumb, submit, or change views to the other to make the relationship work. Change them to your taste.

Another common cause is a lack of physical or emotional intimacy. This can happen when one or both partners are feeling neglected or unfulfilled. They may not feel like they’re getting the love and affection they need. Emotional Intimacy is an important aspect of any relationship, but it can be especially challenging when there’s a lack of trust.

When people are scared to open up to their partner, it can be difficult to build a deep and meaningful connection. Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship, and without it, the relationship is likely to crumble.

When people don’t feel like they can trust their partner, they may start to feel resentful, angry, or even depressed. This can lead to even more distance and isolation in the relationship.

Another cause can be a lack of trust, either because of infidelity or because of a lack of honesty and communication. This can happen when one or both partners have betrayed the other’s trust, whether through infidelity or dishonesty and lack of communication.

Change in priorities. It’s common for people’s priorities to change over time, and this can lead to conflicts in a relationship. For instance, let’s say one person is very career-focused, while the other is more focused on family and relationships.

This can lead to conflict over things like how much time to spend working, what to do on weekends, and even where to live. It’s important for people in a relationship to be aware of their priorities and to communicate openly about them. Otherwise, they may find themselves growing apart.

Continue from part 2….